Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove, are two expat hypnotherapists living in New Zealand. They love having chats with interesting people, telling crazy stories and giving hopefully good life advice. Listen if you are interested in psychology, tips for improving your mental health, sex life and relationships, WTF news, funny stories, the paranormal, book reviews, shocking listener stories, health tips and advice on how to improve your life…
Warning: Adult language. If you are easily offended, this show is not for you.
In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that “no secrets is how adults do it.” Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag?
Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, really Daryl used to work at a bank), why a narcissist’s accusation is often a confession, and how controlling behaviour tends to creep in one small demand at a time. They also share why having your own money and your own privacy isn’t a trust issue, it’s just good sense.
Timestamps:
- 0:00 — Intro banter (Cards Against Humanity and gym stories)
- 5:00 — Welcome + a note on making fun of people (five stars though, please)
- 7:00 — WTF moment: new students who emigrated to NZ on the same flight 26 years ago
- 10:30 — Reddit story: AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend my banking login?
- 15:00 — Discussion: why sharing your login is actually illegal + red flag central
- 18:00 — Gaslighting, coercive control, and “a narcissist’s accusation is a confession”
- 22:00 — Wild tangent: YouTuber invited to a very wrong party
- 26:00 — The Epstein files and scat tables (you’ve been warned)
- 29:00 — Black Mirror Season 7 recommendation + wrap up
Recommendations this episode: Black Mirror, Season 7 (Episode 2 in particular — you’ll know the one)
To find out more about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment:
🔗 https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/
🔗 https://www.darylgove.com/#/
🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/
To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: 🔗 https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story: ✉️ wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com
Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course: 🔗 https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout
Check out Daryl’s Course — Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men: 🔗 https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449
🎵 Intro Music: Soul (Vlog Music) by DJ Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208
Podcast: WTF - Stories and Advice
Caroline Cranshaw and Daryl Gove, are two expat hypnotherapists living in New Zealand. They love having chats with interesting people, telling crazy stories and giving hopefully good life advice. Listen if you are interested in psychology, tips for improving your mental health, sex life and relationships, WTF news, funny stories, the paranormal, book reviews, shocking listener stories, health tips and advice on how to improve your life…
Warning: Adult language. If you are easily offended, this show is not for you.
In this episode of WTF Stories and Advice, hosts Daryl Gove and Caroline Cranshaw dive into a Reddit AITAH post from a 27-year-old woman whose boyfriend is demanding full access to her online banking claiming that “no secrets is how adults do it.” Is this financial transparency, or a massive red flag?
Daryl and Caroline break down why handing over your banking login is actually illegal (yes, really Daryl used to work at a bank), why a narcissist’s accusation is often a confession, and how controlling behaviour tends to creep in one small demand at a time. They also share why having your own money and your own privacy isn’t a trust issue, it’s just good sense.
Timestamps:
- 0:00 — Intro banter (Cards Against Humanity and gym stories)
- 5:00 — Welcome + a note on making fun of people (five stars though, please)
- 7:00 — WTF moment: new students who emigrated to NZ on the same flight 26 years ago
- 10:30 — Reddit story: AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend my banking login?
- 15:00 — Discussion: why sharing your login is actually illegal + red flag central
- 18:00 — Gaslighting, coercive control, and “a narcissist’s accusation is a confession”
- 22:00 — Wild tangent: YouTuber invited to a very wrong party
- 26:00 — The Epstein files and scat tables (you’ve been warned)
- 29:00 — Black Mirror Season 7 recommendation + wrap up
Recommendations this episode: Black Mirror, Season 7 (Episode 2 in particular — you’ll know the one)
To find out more about Caroline Cranshaw & Daryl Gove or book an appointment:
🔗 https://nzhypnotherapy.co.nz/
🔗 https://www.darylgove.com/#/
🔗 https://www.youtube.com/@HypnosisTraining/
To find out about training in hypnotherapy with us, check out: 🔗 https://integrativehypnotherapyinstitute.com
Write to us if you have a question or want us to tell your story: ✉️ wtfstoriesandadvice@gmail.com
Check out our Alcohol Reduction Course: 🔗 https://www.ohhellohypnosis.com/offers/LAiJuAJ9/checkout
Check out Daryl’s Course — Brave Beyond Size: Self Esteem For Men: 🔗 https://app.coursespace.io/creator/daryl.gove/course/449
🎵 Intro Music: Soul (Vlog Music) by DJ Quads https://soundcloud.com/aka-dj-quads Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/m0UBmJLv208